Turns out an alarming number of people believe the female orgasm is some sort of mythical creature. Turns out women actually do enjoy having their lady parts directly stimulated (who knew). After a study conducted on over 1,000 women, this information seemed to be pretty consistent across the board.
If you ever heard that men and women privates are similar, you were right. The same care that is applied to a man can also be applied to a woman. The study basically tells you to play around and see what’s right for you. If you like it, continue. If you don’t, stop. Here you can see from the picture that it’s not all that complicated.
Men and women all over the world are over-complicating the idea of sex and what needs to be done to please a lady. Really, the biggest secret is that everyone has different preferences, but the realm of things women seem to enjoy are all based around the same principals. A good rule of thumb to remember is that not everyone is able to climax through intercourse, so stop taking things so seriously and just enjoy yourself.